Being a couple is a commitment of two people for and with each other. It is sharing everything. It is communicating with each other on every level. It is making decisions with each other and sticking to them with each other. It is projecting a united front to the outside world so they know you are a couple. It is not doing anything, without thinking of the other first. It is checking in with the other before you do anything that will affect the other. It is thinking of the other first before anything else. It is defending, aligning with and following through for and with the other.
If you are raising children as a couple, your children need to see this front. They will draw security from this front. They will learn that this front is insurmountable and that they will not be able to get around, through or under it. They will learn the right things to do and the right way to get their needs met. They will learn that love is a guiding force in your lives and that you respect each other. They will learn how to have a healthy relationship with another person from watching you interact. They will learn to be happy with another and the world around them by watching their parents. These video’s will help you to relax while you’re doing it. Link to the video’s Enjoy!